Extroverts might get all the attention at first, but when it comes down to real, deep attraction, introverts are irresistible.
If you're an introvert, or if you love an introvert, you'll know exactly what we're talking about here.
It's tough to be underrated, but they're patient people. Introverts know that good things come to those who wait, and quite often, they'll be the most romantic partner anyone has ever had.
Some of us have mastered the art of mingling and small-talk, meaning we're extroverted introverts; but, deep down, we'd still rather be snuggling with our s/o in a quiet place.
Here are 10 reasons why introverts are irrisistably sexy:
1. They are better at delaying gratification
Introverts can resist temptation for an immediate reward and wait for something even better later on. Extroverts might cut to the chace, but introverts love the long-game. They'll romance a partner for days before leaning in for that first kiss!
2. They love deep conversation
Introverts might not be so great at small talk, but their analytical minds often surprise their partners with deep, insightful conversation. With an introvert, you'll probably stay up all night talking about life.
3. They will listen to you
Whenever you need to vent, an introvert will be right there. They're totally comfortable with silence and patient enough to let you get through your rant. The best part is, once you've said it all, they could probably
4. They are sensitive
Introverts are so in tune with their feelings and the way others are feeling, that they really do understand what you're going through. They've been called an old soul their whole lives. If they don't understand, they know the right questions to ask you.
5. They excel at intimate connections
Intimacy is not reserved for introverts, but they definitely take it to another level. Since they're always paying attention to the details, these people are the kings and queens of romantic gestures. They will have a hot cup of cocoa waiting for you after a long, cold drive home. They'll always remember your favorite song, your favorite color and they'll never miss your birthday.
6. They use solitude to improve themselves
Not only do introverts need alone-time to recharge, but they also need it to work on self-improvement. They know that the key to a healthy relationship is personal growth and reflection, so they put in the work to be the best that they can be!
7. They focus more intensely on one thing at a time
Since they can be more easily distracted in loud, crowded places, introverts prefer meeting up with their love in a cozy bar, or taking a stroll under the stars. They can focus so intensely on something that they loose track of time and often tune out the sounds around them.
Partners of an introvert get the full benefit of this trait during private moments when they turn that laser focus on the one they love.
8. They notice details that others don't
Introverts know when something's off. They pay so much attention to the people they love and their surroundings, that they're often the first one to ask what's wrong. In addition to being sensitive, they're perceptive and that's a quality that becomes more attractive as time goes on.
9. They are mysterious
Since they're not trying to get your attention, introverts can appear mysterious. There's something very sexy about a person you can't quite figure out.
10. They commit
They're not afraid of the long-haul relationship and they'll wait as long as it takes for the right person. They're probably serial monogamous daters, preferring to have a few committed relationships, than multiple flings.
This kind of staying power might not be sexy in youth, but as they age, it's a highly attractive trait that others find in introverts.
If you're an introvert, do you agree with this list? Do you think introverts are irresistible?
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