You know how the old saying goes: “Everyone has an opinion.” This is apparent online and on social media. When folks can post without having their names attached to their cruel comments, they’ll let the nasty fly.
He’s a total softie when it comes to little dogs, he’s striving to become Jack from “This Is Us,” and he just brought home four different kinds of GF mac and cheese so I wouldn’t be disappointed. ✨ He has a heart of gold, abs of steel, and he’s the most loyal human I’ve ever met. He’s been my best friend for the last ten years, has grieved with me through our miscarriages, taken risks that have scared the heck out of him, and held my hand in church on Sunday. ✨ Ladies, wait for the man that loves you well, that wakes up every day and chooses you, that comes alive in your presence and poses for stupid Instagram photos with a smile. Choose the man who celebrates your power, is your number one fan and who handles the urgency of a mac and cheese craving like a champ. ✨ Don’t look for the one who completes you, you are already whole and complete. This isn’t about being worthy, you already are. It’s about waiting for the one who recognizes that worthiness and wholeness every single day.
Trolls like these need to be called out for their unkind remarks. Granted, they’re just hoping to get a rise out of people. One woman from Wisconsin responded to them in a way that is getting her much love and props from the online community. Her inspiring message has gone viral; she’s shot down the trolls after giving them a thorough tongue-lashing.
Jenna Kutcher is an Instagrammer and host of the “Goal Digger” podcast. She is a strong, healthy, beautiful woman in her own right. She’s married to this guy: drew Kutcher, aka “Mr. 6-Pack.” Drew is a personal trainer and health coach. He and Jenna met in college and have been together for ten years and in love every moment of that decade.
Double tap if SELF LOVE is the real #relationshipgoals! ✨ It’s wild that my body has become the topic of conversation all over the world but I want to take a hot second to dig a little deeper, beyond this “curvy” shell of mine. ✨ Would you believe that I haven’t wore shorts in over 7 years because someone called me thunder thighs? Or that I hid my arms from all photos because I hated them. Would you believe that after our miscarriage I felt lost in my body. Or that I tried every diet out there because I believed the lie that if I finally lost weight, I would be happy... ✨ I finally said, “ENOUGH!” Is this how I want to spend my life? Hiding under baggy clothes, avoiding cameras, retouching every imperfection, hating my reflection? That isn’t what I was put here for. ✨ I started to show up, I started to share my struggle, I shed light on my insecurities, and my soul started to shine beyond this shell. ✨ Let the media say what they want about my size 10 frame but I am beautiful, I am real, I am worthy, and strong and I’m guessing all these things are true about YOU, too. You are worthy, enough and so darn beautiful, don’t forget it. 🙌🏻 #Aeriereal
So some mean folks have voiced, quite unkindly how could Drew be with a woman like Jenna. He’s so fit, and she’s curvaceous.
Jenna addressed the haters head-on; her message of body positivity and self-love has gone viral.
“Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch . I’ll be honest that I was taken aback,” Jenna wrote on Instagram.
Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him. 🙋🏼 This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match. 🙌🏻 So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
Jenna said that yes, she does feel insecure; those trolls hit her in a soft spot. “Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.”
Jenna and Drew’s love is the real deal. They share more than just a physical attraction. This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match (and when I haven’t showered in days.)
Imagine someone loving you for who you are as a person. So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!)
Find the one you wanna tackle on the beach. We’re more pancakes on the couch while watching “This is Us” than going out kind of people. 🍷 We’re more adventures over things and less is really more kinda people. We’re fans of wine tastings that happen on the couch and church on Sunday mornings. 🛋 We let our dogs sleep under the covers and we list three things we’re thankful for every night before falling asleep. 🙏🏼 We’re small town folks with big dreams. We’re going places together and we’re still getting sand out of unmentionable places while we settle back into our little Midwest life. 👫 We are wildly filled with gratitude and excited for what’s to come. And yes, I love @kickingitwithkutch! (Have you seen how cute he is?) 🙋🏼 What’s the number one thing you look for in finding your partner in crime? Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
I loved this part of Jenna’s post. It got to the heart of so many insecurities and negative self-talk that we all experience. “I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. True love doesn’t see the size.”
After her post went viral, drew chimed in to let the world know how much he loves his wife for more than just her body. But he loves her curves too.
“Isn’t marriage supposed to be about love, acceptance and cherishing one another no matter what?” Drew wrote on his own Instagram page. “The way we look has nothing to do with the way we love and viral or not; we’re just thankful to have each other and inspire others.”
Let’s play a little game called: 2 truths and a lie! You guys have to guess which one is the lie! ▫️ 1️⃣ I was kindly voted “most accident prone” in my high school. 2️⃣ I wore the same Minnesota Twins sweatshirt every day for 7th grade. 3️⃣ I have four tattoos on my body and got one on the day I turned 18. ▫️ You think you know me? Let’s find out! I wanna see what you guess! Comment below! I’ll reveal the answer tomorrow!👇🏼
He continued, “At the end of the day worthiness can’t come from other people’s opinions of you, it has to come from within and if doing life with my beautiful wife is newsworthy, then let us be an example of what real #relationshipgoals are!”
Well said! Never allow others to dictate how you should feel about yourself. Love you for you, and your real beauty will shine through.
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