They show up to all your kid's games, spend hours on the field with them, and the whole day is just a waste of time if they don't show up.
But plenty of parents still treat the referees at their child's youth games like trash.
Can you see the problem with this scenario?
Yes, pushy parents are driving referees away in record numbers.
And the situation is going to get worse before it gets better.
Referees can't stand pushy parents
I grew up in a hockey family, and spent the better part of my life sitting in a cold rink to watch my relatives play.
Over the years, I saw a lot of parents who seemed to think their little boy was destined to be the next Wayne Gretzky - if only the coaches and referees wouldn't interfere.
I saw officials heckled, threatened, and even physically attacked by hockey parents.
But reports from just about every sport find the same thing: parents are really aggressive, and it's scaring referees away from their jobs.
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The National Federation of State High School Associations says 80% of their refs quit after less than three years on the job.
Some sports and regions have it even worse:
- 70% of South Carolina's soccer refs quit after a year on the job.
- Only 50% of Houston's refs return to the job after a year.
- And after three years only 20% of Wisconsin's referees stick around.
And leagues are warning parents to expect serious changes because of this trend.